There has never been a doubt in my mind that you are one of the strongest men I know. You raised 4 children, your work ethic is unparalleled, and your success as a man, Father, and lawyer is undeniable.

Last July your strength was tested.

We all have such different haunting memories of that day, however yours and mine were not far off.

I called you that morning because I knew I could not face that day alone. Within 2 minutes you were there, making sure I wouldn’t have to.

That drive, that phone call, that hospital visit we shared in anguish together.

Thank you for being that pillar of strength for me, in a moment no father should ever have to face. My heart broke twice that day; once for the loss of my brother, and once for the pain and sadness on your face that I could not wipe away.

We left the hospital together, and I will never know how you managed to get us home safe. I could barely see the lines of the highway through my tears.

I will forever be grateful to have had you by my side for easily the worst day of all our lives.

To say that you are the greatest Father ever would be an understatement at best.

Some of my fondest memories as a child were made during our Baseball trips with the Hevey’s. From a young age you fostered a love for the game.

I am so happy you got to spend your Father’s day with the people you love and the game you love.

I am looking forward to your return and celebrating with a pint and a game in person.

 

“Together forever and never apart, Maybe in distance but never in heart”

Love you always,

My Papa Bear